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I must start this blog by quoting a statement I once heard
“Whoever says that size doesn’t matter has a small
For decades, we’ve been living in a society that tells us
through different channels and platforms, that big represents strength,
dominance and power in any shape or form. The Guinness Book of Records is full
of adjectives such as “the biggest” “the longest” “the thickest” “the
lengthiest” and so on, they might not necessarily be referring to the male’s
below the waist anatomy, but we have certainly grown up with an “official reference”
listening to all those adjectives that make us believe as men should have a big
one or (female) having a partner who has a big one.
In order for me to have an objective approach to this
subject matter – obviously as a gay man I am affected by those references I
just mentioned above – it is important to try to have a well-informed opinion, which
can be hard because at the end of the day I am a gay human being trying to
compartmentalise such information to have a basic understanding of how our
bodies work. As they say “education is the clue and information is power”. So
let’s have a look at some facts:
Anatomically, the female G-spot is located approximately 3
inches into the vagina channel, which means that
When it comes to us men, something quite similar can be
referred to our prostate gland, but I won’t go into that this time.
As part of my informal research, I spoke to a few women who have an
opinion on this, but the reaction was mixed, some girls concluded that it was
important, some that it wasn’t, but I must admit that most of the girls stated that it
was important, that yes size does matter. Some of them even said "Small willie...no no no"
I found very interesting that when I spoke to a few male friends
and acquaintances who I know have been nicely touched by nature in that
particular area, the consensus was that they do not see themselves in that
way…”big”. They would regard others bigger than themselves. At the beginning I
thought that they were being “humble or unassuming” but later I discovered that
the reason is because the angle we look our own cocks is different to how we
see others, it’s hard to say to ourselves “oh yeah it’s a big one”, because the
angle does not provide us with a proper view as let’s say when you look
yourself in the mirror full frontal with a full erection, to be honest how
often do we men do that? Or how often do we do it and admit it?
Talking about comparing, we tend to compare our sizes with
others’, so watching porn will not be in any way a “healthy” approach to form an opinion
about our “small or big cocks”. We must remember that one of the requirements
to be a porn performer is having a penis bigger than the average. So watching
porn is not a good source if you’d like to gauge the size of yours. The porn
industry is packed by big ones. By the way,
I’d like to clarify that I have never been a porn performer; I learnt all this
from my research : )
One of my female friends had a boyfriend that was so big
that she felt battered by baseball bat and after performing their sexual activities;
she said she walked like John Wayne and she loved it. The relationship did not
last because she said he never went down on her which she adores. Another
friend said that your man was so big, she could not enjoy it at all and they
split up. I heard the story of someone that her casual partner was so small,
she could not perform fellatio on him because she felt it was like sucking off
his little finger…Dreadful, the poor man. Another girl had a partner that was
what she described as “OK”, but there were only certain sexual positions they
could practice and both of them described their reality as “uncomfortable”. Are
they still together? No! Another friend had partner who had a good 9 inches,
but he was so bad in bed, that she ended up cheating on him and eventually they
split up, too. I know yet another girl, whose partner is quite small, but she
refers to him as “an amazing lover in bed” and they’re still together.
So it’s obvious that when it comes to penis size there is a
lot of controversy attached to it (I’m not talking about a strap on) so the big or small concept may become so
subjective that it is not easy to have a definite clarification of what’s big
or small. So I will encourage everybody through this writing to try to
appreciate what they have between their legs and be happy to see that their
appendage whatever size it is can go up and down.
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Next week I will write about the statistics, sizes by
countries and continents and also I will speak about the 
