Sunday, 29 November 2015

My Top 8 Hot Men On Instagram

I recently came across with an article on Harper's Bazaar magazine called "The 16 Hottest Guys To Follow On Instagram", needless to say what  nice eye candy.

I reduced to number to 7 as it was difficult to choose from such a great bundle of testosterone.

In no random order...

                                             Super Model David Gandy  @davidgandy_official

                                                   Model Andre Hamann @andrehamann

                                             Broderick Hunter, Model @broderickhunter

                                                      Nick Bateman @nick_bateman

                                                 Tobias Sorensen, Model @thesorensen

Rob Evans, Boxer/Model & Judge on American Next's Top Model

                                                    Sean O'Pry, Model @seanopry55

                                                   John Compton @johnhenrycompton

I hope you enjoy the view : )


Sunday, 22 November 2015

You Can't Hurry Love, You'll Just Have To Wait...

A while ago, I was having two separate chats with two different people about life and love and having a laugh about life in general.

When the conversation turned into “relationship status”, both persons jokingly brought up the fact of hating very much to tick the “Single” box when filling in some documents. Even one of them made it funnier by telling “I actually  skip that section and it’s the last one I’d fill in”. I asked “Why?”. She goes “Because I have to officially declare I’m single, like as if I don’t know already”. I laughed because I thought it was a funny comment.

Oh my god, but then she goes “Marlon seriously, I’ve been single forever, and in the last year one of my friends got divorced after being married for ten years and two others split up with their boyfriends” I kept smiling,but things were taking a different direction when she proceeded to say “I’m like what the fuck? one is getting divorce two splitting up and I can’t even get a proper match-up profile on Tinder”

After the last comment, I realised the topic for her was more serious than I thought, and yes, in my head I had plenty to say to try to see the “advantages of being single”, but it was one of those situations I have been in that no matter what I would’ve said, I would’ve got the backfire statement of “It’s easy for you to say that because you’re married” or “You say that because you have John” - which is fair enough.

However, I must confess that before meeting John, I was single for a LOOOOOOOONG time. So I do understand some people wanting to meet “the one”, because when John came to my life, I was ready and longing to be in a relationship, but in the meantime, I had an amazing time being single ; )

If you are single, don’t despair, it won’t last forever

Let’s have a look at the some of the advantages of the sometimes “hated status - single”

In an article called “9 Reasons To Love Being Single”, published in Forbes magazine, they spoke about how “being single can be an important stage in life that comes with many benefits”.

And these are some of them…

Single people are generally more social than married people: Because you’re more likely to spend more time with friends, neighbors, you go out more and engage in more social activities. This is very true. It happens to me. When I finish work on a Friday, I just want to go home, whereas some of my colleagues would go out to do something more “entertaining”.

Single people are great for the economy: Because they go out more, have more dates, go on holidays more, their contribution to the economy is enormous.

People want to be around single people: Even though  we can’t generalise, a study suggest that when married couple go out, they prefer to do it with singles, because singles conversations are more about having fun, being trivial and more creative. Sociologist Eric Klinenberg, speaks in more detail about this topic in his book “Going Solo”.

Singles have more sexual partners: They may have less sex than married people, on average, but they do have more sexual partners - which I think it’s great. Sexual exploration is always fun.

Singles invest more in themselves & their careers: They tend to study more. This is one of the reasons why some prefer to stay single while investing in their academic aspirations.

Singles get much needed alone time: These periods of solitude are meant to be beneficial to think about yourself and could help you be more ready to engage when trying to re-enter the busy world.

Singles are, literally, changing the world: It is believed that 32 million Americans are living alone. And the numbers are higher in Europe & Japan. Author Klinenberg says that “It’s one of the world’s biggest social changes in the last 50 years”. This change has had a huge impact on society in some many respects.

As we can see, single people are a big deal. There are many perks about being single.

Remember one thing, there is certain things that don’t last forever and one of them is being single. Enjoy your status. Try to make it a fantastic stage in your life. Don’t be desperate because desperation will lead you nowhere. Maybe you are not ready to meet “the one” & always try to remember... You Can’t Hurry Love, You’ll Just Have To Wait.

So in the meantime...Have a great time!


Tuesday, 3 November 2015

Some Red Flags If You're Dating

The dating game can be a tricky one. I'm sure have heard and read about dating stories that can be funny, worrying, problematic or even hilarious.

Due to technology, these days, dating is easier and faster than before. Even getting laid is very easy these days for both men and women (this is a different topic altogether for a future post).

If you need or want a date all you have to do is go to your beloved iPhone or whatever device you might use, and click on Tinder, Plenty of fish, Grindr or Gayday and your search will be exciting. You will have plenty of choices - bad, OK and good ones.

As it is expected, when you find the good one, you go for it and everything can be "perfect", but remember not everything that shine is meant to be gold. Don't fool yourself, don't get me wrong, enjoy the excitement that comes with the uncertainty, but be aware some the red flags that are right there in front of you, but you can't see because you have already fallen in love.

These are some of them:

1) If he is not gay, and he is over accessorissed - RED FLAG. There's nothing wrong with being trendy but ah here, you don't what your man to be wearing more ornaments than your granny.

2) If he/she is working part-time (of course if they're student is different) and working is all they do - RED FLAG. Somewhere along the way they're gonna tell you they're on the dole. Fuck that!

3) If there's no a good reason for them to still be living in parent's. Seriously? RED FLAG

4) For the girls, if your man drives a very expensive car, but it's renting a small apartment. RED FLAT. At some point you won't be one of his priorities.

5) If they expect you to fully pay the bill or allows you to cover a bigger part of the bills. RED FLAG. You will end up paying for the bastard scabey.

6) For the girls, if he over treats you with expensive gifts, fancy holidays and fancy things in general, but can't afford it. RED FLAG.

7) If they're over-romantic to the point of sounding over-rehearsed - RED FLAG. You rather get a good bang than a romanticism you know it doesn't exist.

8) If they talk about themselves way too much forgetting to inquiring about you - RED FLAG.

9) If they have a job, but can't properly articulate to explain what's about - RED FLAG.

10) If they are the one always over-dressed for the occasion - RED FLAG.

I'd like to clarify these RED FLAGS are an absolute NO-GO "advice". It is important and exciting as individuals to enjoy the thrills of meeting/discovering a new person and taking it as an adventure. However, don't fool yourself. Let's try to be as realistic as one can so you won't be disappointed.

As I said at the start, dating is a funny game and it's this one didn't work out, move on and say "Next"


Tuesday, 27 October 2015

Who's Adele's Boyfriend In Her Hello Video

I'm pretty sure you are happy, like I am, to see Adele back. After a five years break, Her highness is back and  has come back to remind us why she is the one the most successful singer song-writers in the music industry today.

Pharrell Williams, who worked on her  album, described her as a masterful writer - which is a huge compliment coming from such a great music producer like him. The whole music industry has just began to be re-defined, once again, by Adele and her album "25", out on November 20th, is already breaking records.

The video for her single video "Hello" has been viewed over 70 million times in just three days. She has already beats Taylor Swift's record for the most-viewed video in 24 hours.

I know we couldn't expect less.

Now, after watching the music video. I think I have watched it like ten times, one of first questions that came to my mind was "Who's he?", the guy who plays her boyfriend in the video. Who is that guy with such a nice, white smile who has sent the internet into a meltdown?

Here is the answer

His name is: Tristan Wilds, he is 25 and his also a singer and his stage name is Mack Wildes. He appeared on the TV program 90210 as Dixson Wilson

He is also famous for the TV program The Wire

To know more about him, you can follow him on Instagram and/or Twitter

I am already a fan of his. I can't wait wait to listen to Adele's full album. I hope you feel the same.


Sunday, 25 October 2015

Some Outrageous Halloween Costumes

For Halloween, some people seem to be bored to be dressing up as the usual Dracula, Zombies, Witches and bla bla bla. In the pursue to try to be innovative, this year's costumes are a bit tasteless which is I interesting as innovation is always good.

This year it seems that defecation, feces, toilets and flatulence are the best options in the costume market, and some are already loving it. They are practical and creative.

Below I will show a few of them and their respective websites you can get them from.

Toilet Adult Mask

Doo Doo Head

Middle Finger Costume

Snake Charmer
Pussy Magnet
Inflatable Gorilla 

Adult Naked Hillbilly Morphsuit
Butt Blaster Flame Shooter


Falling Head Illusion

No Possible Innuendo Hardwear 
Teenie Weenies Pole Dancer Costume
Ramen Noodles Costume

Whatever you are dressing up as for this, I wish you a



Saturday, 17 October 2015

43rd Birthday & Wedding Anniversary Pics

 July has always been a very significant month for me for so many reasons, and this year was not an exception. In July, I celebrate my Birthday and Wedding anniversary and always have a great time. The pictures below show the amazing time I/we had in our back garden. 

      It truly was a day to remember and I am glad to see those moments were captured so perfectly well...

Gay Birthday Boy

Mother in-low trying to cope with a gay kiss
Sister in-law & her hubby Johan

Love was in the air

The Fantastic Four

The lesbian couple: Amanda & Siobhan

John & Denise

The In-laws & Moesy Moesy

David & Dorotha

What Can I say? Leo & Marky Marky such a lovely couple

Thom & Kathleen

Monika & Goran - The Croatian Blood

The Party Girl
Even Sammy partied the afternoon away

Mother in-law & Paula - having the craic

Mummy's boy

She couldn't wait to have a piece of cake

It was a wonderful wonderful celebration. Thank you so much for making our day ultra especial


Thursday, 15 October 2015

Some Of The Adorable Things A Man's Penis Can Do

I was recently having a serious conversation with a friend about how proud we men are about our penises. That good friend we have between our legs which can do magical things. We also spoke how frustrating must be for all those who nature didn't bless them properly down there and has small ones cough cough. The poor things! But we never spoke about how adorable a penis can be if we use it to make adorable things (apart from babies) hehehe

Needless to say that when I saw this man's work I felt proud and went in my head "My penis is awesome because of all the adorable things it can do"

I found this post in The Huffington Post - which is a great publication I usually use as a source for some of my writings. In their section HUFFPOST WEIRD NEWS they published a work's photographer called "Things My Dick Does" Tumblr and I think his work is clever and hilarious.

                                                 So this is a penis Halloween Theme 

After seeing this, I hope you are happy to realise that penises are awesome and they can do more than making babies and catching STDS'S ; )