
By nature, we human beings are vulnerable when exposed to
visual stimulation, and porn is about visual gratification to cater to the
voracious appetite for stimulation of our senses. Yes, that’s one of the many reasons why we
get really horny when we see a man or a woman naked in our screens, performing
sexual acts that go beyond our imaginations.
Yes, we go crazy when we hear those “actors” moaning from pleasure,
asking for more until the bliss is so high that we just long to become part of
the picture and come together as a celebration of blissfulness.
Have you ever watched a really good porn that is so good
that you start stimulating yourself (wanking for men, fingering for girls), but
the activity -while watching- is so pleasurable that you just keep postponing
the ejaculation because you’re having so much fun? Or have you ever watched a good
porn that has a particular few seconds of full ecstasy and when it’s over you
keep rewinding it? Or have you ever watched a very hot porn scene that taught
you a new sex technique you put into practice with your partner or lover? Or
more so, have you ever watched that porn movie that helped you to discover and
explore that particular corner of your body you didn’t know it was such a
source of sexual pleasure? If you have been in one of or all of the above
porn-viewing situations, good for you, because so have I. It’s very porn
rewarding.
The interesting thing about this topic is that in some
societies, porn can be perceived as “dirty”, “pervert”, “desensitising” and
“morally not allowed” which I personally think it’s pure bullshit. I totally
respect the views and values of those people, however, I think if you are
horny, you are horny, regardless your education, cultural background and
beliefs. When our cocks get hard, or when vaginas get tingly and wet, there’s
not pragmatic reality to stop such condition, because we are just horny.
I would like to clarify that I am talking about consensual,
adult porn not clandestine videos filmed without the consent of the people
involved.
My point is, as I implied earlier, nobody should be ashamed
to watch porn, because it is fun, it is pleasurable and it helps us to broaden
our minds in relation to our biological, sexual and even psychological needs.
Some of the benefits…Let’s have a look at the bigger naked
picture
Watching porn is very low risk because it is physically
impossible to catch an STD or become pregnant.
It is easily accessed, meaning that if you are single, or
even in a relationship, but partner is not “in the mood” for whatever reason,
but you are, you can still use it and pleasure yourself, finding instant
gratification.
Porn allows you to become more comfortable with yourself and
with your own sexuality on your own terms. This is something I personally
called Sexploration.
It is easily accessible and why not, let’s say it, it is
cheap. If you Google “porn”, OMG, you’re going to have so much fun and for
free.
So next time when you’re about to watch a porn movie, do not
allow prejudices or any other stupid reasons
to prevent you from having a good
time on your own. Enjoy yourself, life is too short, we live once so come on, have a great time, and yes, enjoy the whole the viewing process
until you are breathless and eventually cum.
Marlon/Marlife