Sunday, 24 November 2019

Happiness is my panacea.


There are a few one very important lessons I have learnt in life for being are a very happy person:

1) We will never understand who or what we are not. For example, if we are unhappy we will find very difficult to understand and process that someone can be truly happy.

2) When you are truly happy some people might not like you because they are not what you are: A happy person.

3) When you are truly happy, you don't compare your life to others'. You live your life and celebrate the life of others because you are not envious or jealous or who they are and what they have.

4) When you are truly happy you talk about it all the time because you want to share this wonderful feeling with others to try, if possible, to affect others in a positive way.

5) Paradoxically, when you are truly happy you can be annoying to people and some might not even like because of who you are. But you are happy so that's OK.

When we are happy we get to be asked questions like the one below which - by the way - I am very happy to answer

To her question “Are you always this happy?” Me: “Yes I am because the worst thing that could ever happen to someone already happened to me, and it’s that my mother died when I was 11 so what else can happen that I won’t be able to survive?”👍
And this is the message I have from that question: when we are genuinely happy, we open up to the world. We reveal who we are because we are so content within ourselves that we see the world as a platform to spread great feelings.
We don’t become a recluse. We don’t see people or our surroundings or the world as a source of annoyance because deep inside we are ok with ourselves.
Life is too short to be spending it feeling miserable with ourselves and then projecting that feeling into the world.
So yes, I rather chose to have a spoon of cheerfulness than shitfulness because no matter what, life is goooood ❤️ so cheers to life and to the great feelings within us 👍 

1 comment:

  1. I love this man! Anytime I feel alone or need a hug, I know where to go !! His words are so true! And his spirit is free, I’m so sorry you lost your mama at a young age ! Most people would have turned to bad things but you pushed thru and your beauty inside and out showed up! If the world had more Marlon’s, can you imagine how wonderful and happy everyone would be!! Walk down the lane and say hi to a stranger without fear or intimidation!! I never had the honor to meet Marlon, but I feel like I’ve know him all life long !! You are the best! If you wrote a book I will be first in line to buy it !! God bless and keep singing, loving and being you !!

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